As someone who battled for many years with personal relationships, finances, and life generally, I know from firsthand experience how difficult it can seem to find a way to turn your life around, but it IS possible.
Want to know how to get what you want? This article will give you some tips on how to get what you want, and maybe a bit more.
Most people don’t actually know what they want because they focus their time and attention on what is not right in their life, or on things that don’t move them towards what they could have.
How to get what you want in life
Having spent many years with my life seemingly going from worse to worse, I started looking for solutions, and answers. How do I turn my life around? How can I turn my life into a huge success? And, How do I start living the life I want, and continue living it?
The answer came in the form of an MP3, and the person I was listening to was Ray Higdon. I had taken the plunge and purchased an audio series by Ray Higdon, which was a short course on how to improve your business.
It’s fair to say that Ray Higdon’s life has not been an easy ride, and after tellling his story, he said, “My life completely changed on the day I decided I was no longer going to be the person I had been!” This is the first decision you MUST make if you are serious about working out how to get what you want.
Get clear about what you want
You must decide! I mean, really decide about what you want. Step back and take a serious, and honest look at your life. What do you do on a daily basis? How much do you achieve each day? Realistically, what shape are your finances in? Your relationship? Your health? Your business success? And, honestly, if you keep doing what you’re doing, where is it going to take you?
The easiest way to work out what you want, is to write down every aspect of your life as if you were already living your perfect life. Let your imagination run free, and describe it in detail. When I sat down and completed this exercise, it was amazing how quickly my vision of what was possible became.
Ask yourself lots of questions. Where do I live? What does my house look like? How many rooms? Who is my partner? What does he/she look like? Where do you go for holidays? What do you do together? There is no limit to how many questions you ask, just keep doing it until you have written down exactly how your life looks.
(If you are serious about getting what you want, this step is critical.)
Now that you have written down ‘Your Perfect life’, the next step is to create plans to improve on each aspect of your life. This may include, introducing an exercise regime, dieting, quitting cigarettes, working harder, watching less T.V., whatever it’s going to take to move you away from your old life, and start accelerating you to the life you want and deserve.
The more you do towards your new life, and the clearer you are about your vision, the faster the journey will be.
How to get what you want (Money)
If you have struggled for a long time financially, breathe a sigh of relief, because there is an easy way to turn up your ‘financial thermostat’. It can seem that no matter what we do, or how hard we work, we always remain in the same financial position. I know, I’ve been there.
I learnt the following exercise online, and it is a method used and taught by Kathleen Deegleman. (Kathleen is a seven figure earner, and very successful business woman, and therefore I will gladly follow what she says.)
The exercise is simple, each day, deposit an imaginary $5000 into an imaginary bank account. You then have to spend the entire amount each day, and write down what you spent it on, and how you used the money. The next day, add another $5000 to the original $5000, and now, spend all of it.
Each day the amount increases by $5000. This is a very powerful exercise as it starts to exercise your mind to think in terms of abundance, and to think big. It also activates your desire to go after the things you are now thinking about.
Another great thing to do is, get in the habit of saying, “I can afford that!” whenever you see anything that you wish you had. I live in Melbourne, Australia, and I often drive down a street that has a Ferrari, a Lamborghini, and a Maserati showroom, in the space of about 300 metres.
Without fail, I always look at the cars, and keep repeating, I can afford that one, I can afford that one, and I have no doubt, that one day, I will walk into one of those showrooms, and make it a reality.
Eliminate negative self talk
Negative self talk is the thief of dreams. You need to be very aware of what you say to yourself on a regular basis. If you are constantly telling yourself, you’re not worthy, you’re not good enough, you don’t deserve better, I guarantee, this will become your reality.
Believe in yourself. Change what you say, and keep saying it until you feel, and believe it is true. You are worthy. You DO deserve wealth, a great relationship, happiness, great health, and everything else you previously believed you didn’t deserve.
Do this regularly, and say it to yourself with passion, and unwavering belief, and just watch how amazing things start happening in your life, and ‘showing’ up in your world.
I wish you the greatest success, and I sincerely hope that you commit to going after exactly what you want.
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